Escaping to the Escarpment October 30, 2008
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The Escarpment offers tranquility and seclusion without having to travel far. Nestled amongst the luscious greenery of Mount Tamborine, the Escarpment provides the perfect romantic getaway.
Indivuals chalets consists of a king size four poster bed,double spa bath and fire place for those warm winter nights. Couples not only experience the exceptional commodities within the chalet, but also have access to the facilities offered by the resort.
Relaxing massages, delicious breakfasts and access to the cinema to name a few, provide an experience that caters for all.
For those incorporating relaxation with fitness, walking tracks are available to be explored. Panoramic views of the Gold Coast are within close proximity to the Escarpment. Couples can take in the breathtaking views and amaze in the wonder of nature’s glamour.
In conjunction with the beauty and tranquility offered by the Escarpment, the service delivery exceeds that of many resorts . Requests are adhered to in a friendly manner with service and assistance provided efficiently. Manager Gary Poole provides a service that makes you feel that you are home whilst away from home. When you leave the Escarpment, you not only leave with a wonderful experience, but you also leave with a friend.
I truly recommend the Escarpment to any couples searching for a memorable, relaxing and enticing experience.
All About Diamonds October 28, 2008
Posted by Vanessa in Resources.Tags: family, jewellery, life, love, romance, tradition, wedding, wedding dress, weddings
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We all know that diamonds are a girls best friend, but what many of us don’t know is what actually 
constitutes a perfect diamond. The perfect diamond is defined in accordance to its colour, clarity, carat and weight. Purchasing a diamond ring entails understanding the four ’C’s in order to ensure that you end up with the perfect diamond. Whilst prices vary in accordance to the value placed on the diamond itself, it’s important to understand what you are getting for what you are paying.
Colour
The majority of diamonds come in the white colourless range, however diamonds can be found in a variety of colour. Diamonds are graded in accordance to their colour. Colourless diamonds are graded as a D, and as the diamond develops further colour, they are graded downwards in the alphabet. For instance, a diamond which may have yellow or brown colour in it may be graded at an F or G. Thus, diamonds graded as D are considered most valuable due to their rarity and due to light passing through the diamond effortlessly. When light passes through the diamond, it disperses colours of the rainbow, known as dispersion.
Clarity
The clarity of the diamond is graded under 10x power magnification. Thus, clarity is determined as any feature of the stone that reduces its brilliance or value. This is known as inclusions, and usually are natural occurrences within the structure of the diamond once formed. As a result, the clarity of the diamond is determined by the number of inclusions visible in the stone. The severity of inclusions found, and the location in which it is found in the diamond determine the value of the stone. Flawless diamonds are a rarity and thus extremely valuable.
Cut
The angles and proportions of the diamonds facets, as well as how well the light enters the diamond determines the cut of the stone. The cut of the diamond does not indicate the shape of the diamond, rather the cut refers to the structure of the stone. A well cut diamond reflects light from its facets and then disperses the light to the crown (top of the diamond). A deep cut diamond allows light to disperse from the bottom of the stone whilst a shallow cut diamond causes the light to escape from the bottom of the stone, preventing it from being reflected outward.
Carat Weight
The carat is the basic unit of weight measure for diamonds. The weight measure for diamonds is equal to 0.20 grams. Small diamonds are measured in points where one carat is divided into 100 points. As diamonds increase in size, the more rare and valuable it becomes.
When purchasing a diamond, it is important to consider all four factors. A larger diamond, with yellow colour and poor clarity may not necessarily be more valuable then a smaller diamond with colour grade of D, and perfect clarity. It is important to ensure that you ask questions in order to attain a diamond that suits your taste and budget.
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Five ways to keep your relationship on the ball. October 27, 2008
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Five ways to keep your relationship on the ball.
Entering a committed and long term relationship is not an easy task. After the initial honeymoon phase has worn out, many of us begin to notice the little idiosyncracies that grow to becoming annoying habits. Whilst we may have turned a blind eye once before to these annoying little habits, as the relationship progress, these habits can grow into explosive problems. For some, such habits can destroy the relationship. Most of us will acknowledge that we also may exhibit such annoying traits or habits, and perfection is something that definitely not attainable. So how do we ensure that our relationship stands the test of time, or in some cases the test of annoying habits? We have provided five simple steps to follow to ensure that your relationship is always on the ball.
1. Words of affirmation: Compliment your partner, and use words of appreciation. Provide your partner with encouragement, and show empathy to show that you can see the world from your partner’s perspective. Learn about your partner. Find out what is important to them, what do they value the most. Finding out about your partner provides you with the opportunity to show that you believe in them, that you have faith in them and their abilities. Speak kindly and speak in a manner that represents understanding and kindness. Make requests, not demands as a request introduces the element of choice. Lastly, use indirect compliments, that is, speaking positively about your partner when they are not around.
2. Quality Time: Quality time does not entail existing in the same household. Rather, quality time is about being together, being within close proximity. Share time with one another, engage in an activity together and engage in conversation. This means sharing thoughts, feelings and emotions with one another. Unlike affirmation, the focus is about what is being heard rather than was is being said.
3. Giving and Receiving Gifts: Let your partner know that you are thinking of them. Giving your partner a gift, whether it is small or large, expensive or inexpensive symbolises that you are thinking of them. Whether you decide to make something for your partner, write them a letter, email or simply give them a call, the action shows that you are thinking of them. Letting your partner know that you think of them and love them is an important gift to give, and important to receive. It affirms how you feel towards one another, and strengthens the relationship.
4. Act of service: Ensuring that you help your partner is vital to letting them know that you care. Whether it is vacuuming, or mowing the lawn, these little things indicate partnership and thoughtfulness. Also, it’s important to note what your partner is doing for you. Remember to thank them for their help, as this allows them to understand that you have acknowledged the effort that they have made for you.
5. Physical Touch: The touch of love may incorporate various physical actions. A loving touch can entail giving your partner a massage, sexual intercourse or back rub. Touch can also entail resting your hand on your partner’s shoulder, a hug or kiss. It’s important to discuss what you and your partner desire sexually, and how you both perceive the expression of love making. Simple touches, kisses or cuddles on the couch symbolises love and desire for your partner. Individuals who strive to give their partners a hug or kiss, and who openly discuss their sexual desires often have a stronger connection with their partner. Touching rekindles the old flame, and often helps to re-create the honeymoon phase.
Relationships require hard work and committment. Couples must be committed to one another, and committed to ensuring that the relationship is important enough to put in the hard yards. Strong relationships also experience difficult times, however if you follow these steps, and build a strong foundation, then chances are you will find yourself in a relationship that will stand the test of time.
Top 40 Honeymoon Destinations in New South Wales October 24, 2008
Posted by Vanessa in honeymoon.Tags: family, honeymoon, life, love, marriage, romance, tradition, travel, wedding, wedding dress, weddings
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Jonah’s |
02 99745599 |
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Eagle View Escape |
1300 851829 |
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Seclusions |
02 63556300 |
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Strawberry Patch Cottage |
4304 96755 |
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Varenna Luxury Accommodation |
4304 96755 |
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Falls Moutain Retreat |
02 47578826 |
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York Leura Gardens Resort |
02 47844004 |
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Bishops Court Estate |
02 63324447 |
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Duntryleague |
02 63623822 |
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Orange De Russie Suites |
02 63600973 |
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Boathouse on Hawkesbuy |
02 99858505 |
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Bells at Killcare |
02 43602411 |
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Villa By the Sea |
02 43851170 |
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El Lago Waters Resort |
02 43323955 |
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Mantra Kooindah Waters |
02 43555777 |
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Bluebell Retreat |
1800 802044 |
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Billabong Moon |
02 65747290 |
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Bali at the Bay |
02 49812964 |
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Australia‘s Diamond Beach Resort |
02 65592719 |
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Clarendon Forest Retreat |
02 65543085 |
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Nudoobah Retreat |
02 65522818 |
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Pacific Bay Resort |
1300 363360 |
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Crystal Creek Rainforest Retreat |
02 66791591 |
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Oubetrees Resort Hotel |
02 92626585 |
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Altitude 1260 Resort |
02 64562511 |
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The Pines Pastoral |
02 48683523 |
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Barefoot Springs |
02 44460509 |
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Bellachara Boutique Hotel |
02 42341359 |
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Kiama Harbour Cabins |
02 43322707 |
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Coast Resort Merimbula |
02 64954930 |
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Tumbling Waters Retreat |
02 42941888 |
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Bannisters Point Lodge |
0244553044 |
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Ulladulla Guest House |
0244551796 |
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Central Coast Holiday Parks |
1800 241342 |
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York Fairmont Resort |
02 47844144 |
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Pet Porpoise Pool |
02 66591900 |
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Raffertys |
02 4972 5555 |
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O’Reillys Rainforest Retreat |
02 55024911 |
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Shoal Bay Resort and Spa |
1800 181810 |
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Glamour on the Bay |
02 4384 7959 |
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Ten steps to helping you deal with a break up. October 12, 2008
Posted by Vanessa in Resources.Tags: family, life, marriage, psychology, relationship, romance, society, wedding car, wedding dress, weddings australia
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Ten steps to helping you deal with a break up.
Shane Warne: Source The Age
Here comes the bride…..there goes the groom! Marriage can be daunting at the best of times, but if you find yourself with a Shane Warne wannabe, then it’s time to bowl him right out of your life. Whilst relationship breakdowns can difficult at the best of times, it’s important to realise that things do happen for a reason and some things are just not meant to be. Sometimes you may need to throw a yorker his way and get him out. So how do you cope after a serious relationship break up? Pick yourself up and try out some of our strategies to dealing with a break up the therapeutic way.
1. Circle of friends- Meet up with the girls and engage in a ritual burning ceremony. Anything that belonged to him goes in the fire, and whilst you’re doing it, why not toast some marshmallows with your friends!
2. Meet and greet – There’s nothing like a night out in town with the girls. Glam yourself up and party with the girls. Being out and about will help you to see that there are always plenty of fish in the sea, and lets face it ladies, some of those fishes can be good enough to eat!
3. Make over – Leaving a serious relationship can be a big change in a your life. Whilst you undergoing one change, why not revamp your ’look’ and have a complete make over. Whilst it may be a quick fix and temporary remedy, it will leaving you feeling gorgeous.
4. Holiday – Take that holiday you always wanted! Organise a group of your girlfriends and go away together. Sometimes leaving the old scenery behind can assist the heart to heal. A happy, warm and social location will help you get out and have fun.
5. Engage in an activity that you have always wanted. Whether it be dancing, or tennis, start something new to commemorate a new beginning for you. It will also help you to meet new people which can be therapeutic as they won’t know anything about your past relationship, thus preventing you from avoiding the dreaded questions about the ex.
6. Relocate – Whilst taking a holiday can provide some new scenery, you may want to think about a complete new start. Often leaving a serious relationship can mean leaving a huge part of your life. Sometimes it’s easier to start a new life without your ex partner in a place where memories don’t exist. Remaining in the same home or even the same suburb can be unhealthy and prolong the healing process.
7. Play catch – Take the time out to catch up with old friends. Sometimes being in a long term relationship can prevent us from spending quality time with our family and friends. Often when we find ourselves alone we seek those who were once close to us. Take the opportunity to call some of your old friends and rekindle those relationships.
8. Reminisce and farewell – Depending on the circumstances of the break up, sometimes it’s nice to remember the good times. Cherish the nice moments, put them away and bid them farewell. Whether good or bad, all relationships provide us with experience one way or another. Learn from your relationship, and take with you the positives. Keeping hold of excess bagage is unhealthy, so make sure that you only pack the essentials before moving into another relationship.
9. Seek professional advice – Sometimes it’s helpful to speak to someone in a professional setting. Counselors can offer objective advice and help you decipher the nuts and bolts without the pre-conceived ideas emerging or the judgements.
10. Time – Remember that it everyone deals with break ups differently. If you feel like you are taking a long time then that’s ok. On the flip side, if you feel that you have dealt with the break remarkable well and have moved on quickly, then that is ok too. We are all different and experience relationship breakdowns differently.
Finalising the end of a relationship can be heartbreaking. Whatever the circumstances, it’s important to engage with close friends and family during this period. Take the time to reflect on who you are, you may find that you learn new things about yourself that you didn’t previously know.
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Ten steps to Making Love not War October 12, 2008
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Ten steps to Making Love not War
Tom Cruise: Source Ask Men
Communicating in a marriage can be a difficult task, and for some it’s mission impossible. Since the majority of us don’t have access to Tom Cruise, we are often required to address the issue on our own, and for some of us, this can result in catastrophic blow ups. Addressing problems and issues can lead to rocket launches filled with verbal abuse and put downs, and often, such attacks and insults can result in complete destruction. So, how does one learn to communicate with their partner without starting world war III ? Better yet, how does one learn to be communicated to? Here are some simple, yet probably effective steps to ensuring that you get heard whilst hearing the other side.
1. Listen, listen and listen – Listening is an extremely important part of communicating. Often many of us develop an egocentric approach to arguing whereby we are convinced that we are right, and thus stand our position. Sometimes listening to the other person can allow us to understand what they are actually attempting to say, rather than what we think that they are saying.
2. Clarify the unclear – It’s important to ask questions if you are unclear about what your partner is trying to say. Often, you may find that what you thought they were saying could actually be completely different to what they are REALLY saying. Also, if you are the person which your partner is attempting to clarify things with, it’s important that you remain patient and don’t become defensive. Often you may find that you may not be explaining yourself well and your partner may be simply misunderstanding what you are saying.
3. Paraphrase – If you are unsure about what your partner is saying, paraphrase what they said back to them. For instance, “you said …..”. If you have it wrong, then your partner should be able to re-phrase what they attempted to say. On the flip side, if your partner is paraphrasing something back to you and they get it completely wrong, don’t get upset and defensive, simply put it in another way. You may find that the conflict or issue is resolved very quickly.
4. Brainstorm – Brainstorm different ways that you can address the problem between the two of you without bringing out the pepper spray. This will ensure that a collaborative approach to problems solving is achieved and will give you a foundation to solving disputes.
5. Develop rules – If you’re the type of person that becomes ruled by your emotion, then it may be of benefit to develop some ground rules. Perhaps you could set a rule whereby your voices aren’t raised above 1000 decibels, or foul play doesn’t occur. Whatever the rule, you may find that it will provide some boundaries to keeping the comments above the belt. For some, it’s important to remember that there aren’t any conversion points to be obtained by having the last say.
6. Respect – Respecting your partner’s opinion is important. As individuals we all have different views and beliefs about various topics, however it is vital to remember that just because your partner thinks differently does not mean that they are wrong. Understanding your partner’s opinion, whether you agree with it or not allows for effective communication because it then opens the door for negotiation.
7. Reflect – Many of us wonder what we fought about after fighting with out partner. Often when we reflect on the argument that we had, we find that the issue wasn’t as big as what we initially thought it was. Hindsight is a pain, and we can’t change what occurred or what was said, however reflecting on our behaviours and making a conscious effort to address the issue differently next time is important. Developing a high level of emotional intelligence takes time and practice, this means encountering conflict and learning how to deal with it effectively. It’s important to be aware of how we are feeling during conflict, and to act accordingly. If you are feeling angry, then it is important to realise this and leave the situation. Sometimes using ’I’ statements can help. For instance, “i feel really angry right now, so i’m going to have a break”.
8. Implement – Implement the effective strategies you develop. It’s no use discussing the rules and brainstorming strategies for effective communication. In order for effective communication to occur, you need to put money where your mouth is and actually do what you say you are going to do. This also provides you with the opportunity to see if your strategies do make a difference to how you communicate.
9. Compromise – There will be times when coming to an agreement or resolving the issue may be impossible. During such times, it is important to compromise in order to produce a win win outcome. Both parties are thus left feeling happier, and move on from the issue.
10. Positive affirmation – Whilst it is easy to throw destructive and hurtful remarks to one another, it is vital that poisonous words that you may not have meant are followed with positive affirmation. Remember to tell your partner what you do LIKE about them as opposed to what irritates you. Subsequently, remember to show your partner that you love them and care about them. Like the old saying, actions speak louder than words, showing your partner that you love them can result in perfect harmony.
Communicating can be extremely difficult, and for most us we often feel like bashing our heads against a brick wall when trying to deliver our point across. Following these simple steps will hopefully provide some positive guidelines to effectively engaging with your partner during times of conflict.
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10 Simple steps to obtaining perfect wedding photos. October 7, 2008
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As Madonna would say, “strike a pose, there’s nothing to it”! Ensuring that your wedding photos turn out brilliantly can be a difficult task. Most of us get married once, so having great wedding photos is vital to ensuring those magical memories stay in tact. There are millions of photographers around, all of which claim that they are ‘simply the best’. So unless their name is Tina Turner, it’s not always wise to accept that they are better than all the rest. Here are some useful tips to ensure that you receive wedding photos that will make you feel like a supermodel on the cover of a magazine.
- Research, research and research – it’s important to talk to a number of photographers and to site their original works. Photographers that are willing to pull out their photos and display them confidently will likely be more credible than a photographer who alleges that they don’t have anything current to show.
- Equipment – Ask the photographer to show you the cameras that he or she uses and assess their equipment. Most credible photographers will use professional cameras that deliver high quality photos. Also, if the photographer can provide a detailed description about his or her camera and why he or she uses it, then it’s likely that he or she has some knowledge in the world of photography. If they pull out the disposables, run.
- Word of mouth – Sometimes it’s great to take advice from other couples who have been married. If other couples are happy with the photos they received, then chances are they employed a good photographer. Word of mouth can not only be powerful, but it can also save you time and tears.
- Discuss preliminary plans with the photographer – Ask the photographer how they prepare for the shoot. A good photographer will visit the site where the photos will be taken and assess the quality of lighting and so forth prior to the wedding day. If they are going to show up on the day and take the chance, then it’s highly likely that you are going to waste your money.
- Price – the price can indicate whether the photographer is credible or not. Whilst a good photographer can drain the budget, it’s far better than employing Joe Bloggs down the street that has recently completed his certificate iii in photography. It may be tempting to stick to the cheaper option, but that often means receiving photos that look just as ‘cheap’.
- Bargain – compare and contrast credible photographers and then report the various prices to all. You may find that some photographers may drop their price to compete with their competitors, thus winning your business.
- Communicate – Ensure that you tell your photographer how many people are attending your wedding and how many people are in your bridal party. This will allow the photographer to effectively plan the length of time he or she will require to ensure that the wedding guests and the bridal party are incorporated in all photos. You don’t want the photographer rushing through the job in order to have all the photos completed. Chances are, you won’t receive great quality photos.
- Colour theme – Think about your colour theme for your wedding. You don’t want the bridesmaids in dull coloured dresses that will make them look washed out. Similarly, you don’t want over the top colours (fluro) that will take the eye away from the bride and groom. Colours should contrast well with one another, so if the bridesmaids are wearing a bright and happy coloured dress, then tone it down on the bouquets.
- Tanning – whilst fake tan can look appealing, it’s important to note that less is definitely more. If you opt for a fake tan, keep it to a minimum as the orange look does not look very appealing in photos.
- Make up – Wearing sufficient make up is important as the camera will take it off. Often we see models and actors looking ‘natural’ in magazines. In reality, they have a substantial amount of make up on. The camera removes the look of the make up whilst accentuating your features. So, while you don’t want to look like a drag queen, it’s important to wear some make up so you can look fresh in your photos.
Wedding photos become extremely valuable and sentimental to many married couples, thus it is important to ensure that the photos you receive are of high quality and value. Following these simple steps will enable you to effectively employ a photographer that will provide you with photos that you will want to pull out for years to come.
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Honeymoon on a Budget October 6, 2008
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We’ve all heard the famous line, “I don’t want your money honey, I want your love”! Whilst we all look forward to our honeymoon, we are also well aware of the potential costs involved. Weddings are an expensive event on their own; however honeymoons can also contribute significantly to the old bank account drying up.
Many of us today view the honeymoon as an event that not only allows us some quality time with our new husband or wife, but also as an opportunity to have that holiday we always wanted. Overseas trips and activity filled discoveries of the world are becoming extremely common. Whilst having an exciting and adventure filled honeymoon can be enticing, some of us may prefer to experience ‘the love’ whilst keeping the bank balance in check. Here are some tips to ensure that you can spend some quality time with your loved one without blowing your budget.
- Home sweet home – We all know home is where the heart is, and for some, it’s where the love is. Rather than paying for accommodation, why not stay at home and put your money towards daily activities such as going out to a fancy restaurant or going away for day trips. You may find that you will have the opportunity to engage in more activities by saving on accommodation costs.
- Bed and Breakfast – Fancy resorts and hotels are a thing of the past. There are an abundance of bed and breakfasts that are situated in secluded and romantic locations, and best of all, you get breakfast!
- Camping – Why not bring out the tent and enjoy the sunshine! There are a great amount of sites with pristine views. If your not the type to erect a tent, then go for cabin, either way they are an extremely cost effective way to experience the beauty of nature!
- Houseboat – Whilst certain houseboats can put a dint in the budget, there are cheaper options available. You can experience the magic of a cruise whilst having complete control of where you want to go. Whilst you’re out on the water, why not bring out the fishing line and catch dinner!
- Caravan tour – Forget touring Europe! Why not experience the beauty of your own country and hire a caravan! Tour Australia and see the wonders of our country without having to convert your money!!
- Housesit – Know someone who may be going away! Why not house sit and experience being somewhere else. Tour the nearby locations and see what other areas have to offer.
- Pack the Backpack – Backpack around Australia and see the sights! Why not jump on your bike and get fit whilst you travel around the country. There are plenty of lodges around the country for backpackers. It’s definitely a fun and cheap and alternative way to see the country.
- Email alert – Send an email to all your friends and family and see if anyone has a holiday guest house they can allow you to use. You may find that your old great aunt may have a holiday house in the woods that you didn’t know about. Perhaps you can make a deal and tell them that they can lend their holiday home as a wedding gift!
- Time is of the essence – Postpone your honeymoon to a low peak time of the year. If you decide to marry in high peak season (eg December to February), you will find that prices will double as a result of the holiday season. Perhaps you can postpone your honeymoon to the winter months to get those special deals. There is nothing better than being wrapped up in your partner’s arms by a log fire!
- Team Effort – if you are really set on having that action packed adventure honeymoon overseas, why not ask your wedding guest to put forward a contribution towards your holiday rather than purchasing a present. Sometimes team effort can go a long way!
It’s natural for us to want to experience a honeymoon that is special and memorable, however sometimes our financial situation may not allow it. Some couples opt for a honeymoon years after they have been married, and others simply have something small followed by a proper holiday down the track. You often hear of couples saying “we’re on our second honeymoon”, often meaning that they didn’t get to experience a ‘real’ honeymoon the first time. Whatever you chose, it’s also important to note that having a honeymoon is about having some ‘time out’ with your new wife or husband. Where and how that time is spent is up to the individual and the couple as a whole.
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Finding your perfect wedding dress October 1, 2008
Posted by Vanessa in Wedding Dresses.Tags: accessories, advice, family, life, love, romance, tradition, wedding dress, Wedding Dresses, weddings
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Simple steps to finding your perfect wedding dress
Looking your best on your wedding day is essential to ensuring that your day is successful. As a bride, we want to ensure that we experience not only the best day possible, but that we also look our best. Our wedding dress is considered the prized and most valued commodity to our wedding. Whilst weddings are not primarily about the bride, many of us highly regard the bride to be the ‘highlight’ of the wedding. As a result, we encounter the pressure and stress of ensuring that we shine on the day. Often when we commence our wedding preparations, the very first thing we attempt to organise is our wedding dress. This alone can be an extremely difficult task. With an abundance of dresses to choose from, we can often become overwhelmed by the variety available. So, whilst it is a case of trying on the dress and experimenting a little, there are a few simple tips available that can take the edge off this taxing task.
As a general rule, the dress you choose should reflect your personality whilst complimenting your figure. The following should also be considered:
Quality and Workmanship
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Check the workmanship of the dress and ensure that it is of good quality. You don’t want the dress falling apart on the day;
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Sourcing designer dresses from overseas may seem customary, but Australian designers also provide elegant and stunning dresses.
Finding the right dress for your figure
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Make the best of your figure and chose a dress that compliments your shape.
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Full-figured brides should select a dress that skims the body as opposed to hugging it.
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If you’re pear-shaped, then choose an A-line dress to hide the hips and thighs.
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Thin and tall brides should select a dress that accentuates the feminine curves, as opposed to looking thin and straight.
Getting an honest opinion
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Ensure that you bring someone with you who will provide you with an honest opinion.
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Your best friend, maid of honour, mother or anyone else that has known you for a long time will be the best person to offer that constructive advice.
Budget, Budget, Budget!
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Remember that your dress will only be worn once, so if you’re on a tight budget, then don’t overlook the possibility of hiring your dress. You will probably find that you will be able to have that gorgeous dress you dreamt of without the price tag attached.
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Many websites advertise pre-loved wedding dresses for you to purchase. You may also want to have a look at this option.
Skin Tone and tanning
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The shade of your wedding dress should accentuate your skin tone, and not make you look washed out.
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If you plan on tanning for the wedding day, bear in mind that the tone of your skin could alter the colour of the dress.
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Tanning can also remove the eye away from the dress and your groom as the tan becomes extremely noticeable in photos. So if you want to be seen on your wedding day, ensure that you don’t go overboard with the fake tan.
Accessories and the Comfort factor
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Accessories are great, but a good rule of thumb is the fancier the dress, the simpler the jewellery should be.
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If you are wearing large and dramatic earings, then forget the necklace. Instead, try a bracelet.
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If you wish to wear a dramatic necklace, then opt for elegant but less dramatic earings. Bracelets are not recommended if wearing earings and a necklace.
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Consider the length of the dress. Envisage the type of shoes you will wear on the day and determine whether or not you will require dress alterations. You don’t want to be falling on the day.
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If you want minimum fuss on the day, take into account the amount of time it will take you to get into your dress. Dresses with zips are great; you can jump in and get zipped up with minimal fuss. If you don’t mind preparation time, then you might like the look of the lace up back.
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Whilst wearing a veil used to be traditionally part of the wedding attire, today it is strictly optional. If your dress is flamboyant, then you might like to keep it simple and not wear a veil. If you would like to formalise the dress a little, then the veil would be great.
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Wearing gloves may look stunning and accentuate the dress further (Cinderella look), but consider the difficulties you will have when exchanging rings. Often you find that your wedding ring will not fit over the glove.
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Handbags should be small and should match your wedding dress. Ensure that you arrange for someone to hold your handbag during the critical times on your day. You don’t want to be managing a bouquet whilst holding a handbag. Your certainly don’t want to have your handbag in your hand during the wedding photos as it will make your look ‘cluttered’.
Great Hair compliments the dress
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If your dress is simple and elegant, then you might want to have your hair in a dramatic up hair style.
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Alternatively, if your dress is extremely flamboyant, then consider a simple hairstyle. You don’t want to look overdone.
Departing Attire
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If you want to change into another outfit when leaving your reception, ensure that your outfit compliments your wedding dress.
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You want to be remembered as the beautiful and stunning bride, so don’t leave your guest with a last bad impression.
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Wear an outfit that is elegant yet comfortable. This is vital especially if you are travelling straight to your honeymoon venue.
